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Smart, Not Scared: teach stranger safety without scaring your child

Five simple rules, the exact words kids can use, practice games and a printable family safety plan. Teach it like a fire drill: calm, simple and practised until it feels natural. Free 12-page PDF.

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What's inside

Inside the guide

  • What the kids in our reel did right
  • The 5 safety rules kids can remember
  • Words kids can use: No. Go. Tell.
  • Safe adults and safe places
  • Practice at home: six “What if?” questions
  • An age-by-age guide
  • Online strangers too
  • If your child tells you something
  • A printable family safety plan
  • Resources for parents
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A taste of what's inside: the 5 safety rules

  • 1. Check first. Before you go anywhere, take anything or help anyone, check with your parent or trusted adult. Every time.
  • 2. Grown-ups ask grown-ups. An adult who needs help should ask another adult, not a child.
  • 3. Not alone, not private. Never go into a car, restroom, house or quiet place with someone your family has not approved.
  • 4. No yucky secrets. Surprises are fun and short. Secrets about touch, gifts or “don't tell your parents” are always okay to tell.
  • 5. Trust your uh-oh feeling. If something feels wrong, you can say no, move away, make noise and tell a safe adult.

Behaviour matters more than looks, and most harm to children comes from people they already know. That is why every rule is about behaviour, secrets and checking first.

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This guide shares general safety education. Every child and family is different. If you have a concern about a child's safety, contact your local authorities or a child protection professional.